The latest drama in our house is the way Max is interacting with Kai. Sometimes hed fab with him and its all about the kisses and cuddles but sometimes its the complete opposite its all smacking and pulling. Im really struggling with working out how the best way to desl with this.
Currently i lose my cool and shout st Max. I dont do it to be mean or nasty its more out of instinct at that moment i need max to know that hed behavouir is not acceptable.
Max is 21 months now and beleve me he understands a whole lot. I feel awful to keep telling him off i just dont see any other way.
I also feel bad for Kai when Max was born this house was so peaceful and calm but now its really not. Im really concerned about how this with affect Kai.
How do you deal with the sibling issue. I really need help and advice here